Death and the Need to Live for Others in Being Kind and Supportive: Adieu Chief Elite Jamiu Diekola Onaolapo by Balogun Ambassador Gaphar Babatunde Ojetola GAIC

Death is a universal reality that unites all of humanity, regardless of culture, religion, or social status. It is the final chapter in every human life, yet its certainty often inspires people to reflect on how they live their lives. In the face of death’s inevitability, the meaning of life becomes a pressing question. One profound answer to that question lies in the human capacity to care for one another. Kindness, compassion, and support for others not only give meaning to our lives but also allow us to leave a lasting impact beyond our own existence.

Understanding death encourages humility. It is a reminder that our time is finite, and that every moment we spend angry, bitter, or self-centered is a moment lost. When we acknowledge that we are here for only a limited time, our priorities begin to shift. The pursuit of wealth, power, or status often fades in significance, and what emerges instead is the value of relationships, empathy, and love. We begin to realize that how we treat others is perhaps the most important legacy we leave behind.

Living for others does not mean sacrificing our individuality or suppressing our own needs. Rather, it is about recognizing our interconnectedness. Every act of kindness, no matter how small, sends ripples through the lives of others. A comforting word, a helping hand, or simply listening to someone in pain can transform a moment of despair into one of hope. These gestures create a world in which people feel valued, understood, and not alone.

In many ways, death brings clarity. It teaches us that the pain of loss is often soothed not by grand gestures but by simple acts of support. When someone passes away, it is the presence of friends and family, the shared memories, and the support of the community that help the grieving move forward. This is a reflection of our deepest human need—to be seen, to be heard, and to be loved. We cannot stop death, but we can ease the burden of life by being kind and supportive to those around us.

The idea of living for others is deeply rooted in many religious and philosophical traditions. In Christianity, for example, the commandment to “love thy neighbor as thyself” is a central tenet. Buddhism emphasizes compassion and the alleviation of suffering. In African communal philosophies such as Ubuntu, the belief is that “I am because we are,” highlighting that our humanity is defined by our relationships with others.

From the Islamic perspective, both death and the need to live for others are central themes. The Qur’an states, “Every soul shall taste death” (Surah Al-Imran, 3:185), reminding believers that life is temporary and should be spent in preparation for the eternal hereafter. Islam teaches that the best preparation for death is not only prayer and worship but also living a life of service, kindness, and compassion.

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, “Be in this world as though you were a stranger or a traveler” (Sahih Bukhari), a reminder of our brief stay on earth. He also said, “Allah is kind and loves kindness in all matters” (Sahih Muslim), and even described a smile as an act of charity. These teachings elevate everyday kindness into acts of spiritual significance.

A particularly powerful concept in Islam is Sadaqah Jariyah—ongoing charity. The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) taught that when a person dies, their deeds end except for three: ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge, and a righteous child who prays for them (Sahih Muslim). This highlights that living for others is the highest order of service to humanity.These traditions remind us that true fulfillment does not come from isolation or selfish gain but from our ability to uplift and care for one another.

Furthermore, in the face of death, kindness becomes a form of resistance—a way of asserting that love and goodness still matter. When someone chooses to be kind, especially in a world that can often be harsh and indifferent, it is a powerful statement. It is saying, “Despite everything, I choose to make things better for someone else.” This choice becomes even more meaningful when we understand that we may not have another chance. Every day offers an opportunity to be someone’s source of light in the darkness.

Many people who have faced the loss of a loved one often find purpose in helping others. This is not just a coping mechanism; it is a testament to the idea that love does not end with death. It transforms. Parents who lose a child may start a foundation in their name. Friends who lose someone to illness may raise awareness or funds for research. These acts of kindness carry the memory of the deceased forward, ensuring that their lives continue to make a difference.

Living for others also means being present. In our fast-paced, digitally connected world, it is easy to overlook the people right in front of us. Genuine support often comes not from grand plans but from paying attention, from noticing when someone is struggling and choosing to care. Being present is an act of kindness in itself. It says, “You matter. I see you.” These moments of connection are often what people remember most, especially when time runs out.Support can take many forms—emotional, physical, financial, or simply moral. Sometimes, supporting others means standing up for them, advocating for justice, or creating space for their voices to be heard. Other times, it means sitting silently beside someone who is grieving. The key is empathy—putting ourselves in others’ shoes and responding with humanity. Such support builds stronger families, resilient communities, and a more compassionate world.Moreover, living kindly and supportively for others enhances our own lives. Research shows that people who practice kindness and altruism experience greater happiness, lower stress, and improved mental health. Helping others gives a sense of purpose and fulfillment that material success alone cannot offer. In a paradoxical way, by focusing on others, we enrich ourselves. The more love we give, the more we feel it within us.In facing death, some may feel fear or sadness, but others find motivation to live more deeply and meaningfully. Knowing that life is short pushes us to make every interaction count. We may not have control over how or when we die, but we do have control over how we live and how we treat others. That power is both a responsibility and a gift.

When one understudy the life and death of Chief Elite Jamiu Diekola Onaolapo of the Egbinola Pharmacy, Oranyan Ibadan who returned to his creator on the best Day on earth, Day of Arafat, Thursday 5th June, 2025 it will remain a lesson for others to have a rethink of this ephemeral life and live for others.

In conclusion, death, far from being only an end, is also a teacher. It reminds us of the fragility and beauty of life. It challenges us to ask what kind of mark we want to leave behind. And in answering that question, we are guided to a life of kindness and support. Living for others—through compassion, presence, and care—is not only noble but necessary. It is the truest way to honor the lives we touch and the finite time we are given. Through our actions, we can ensure that even though we all must die, we live on in the love we have shown and the lives we have uplifted.

Baba Chief Elite Jamiu Diekola Onaolapo was the Chairman Board of Trustees, Oluyole Social Elites Club Ibadan and member of the Central Council of Ibadan Indigenes Board of Trustees.

May Allah accept his return and admit him unconditionally into the best level of Aljannah. Ameen

CCII Award: Balogun Gaphar Ojetola appreciates CCII, Friends,Families, others

Appreciation Message

In 2013, I was deeply honoured by the Central Council of Ibadan Indigenes (CCII) with the Distinguished Merit Award in recognition of my contributions to the progress and development of Ibadanland.

On Saturday 17th May 2025, I was again profoundly humbled as the same council conferred upon me the title of Grand Ambassador of Ibadan Culture (GAIC), in appreciation of my delivery of two excellent and unprecedented Ibadan Cultural Festivals in 2022 and 2024.

Throughout this journey of service to my fatherland, I have enjoyed unwavering support from my beloved wife, children, and grandchildren. Their sacrifices and understanding during my periods of absence made these achievements possible. I owe them my deepest gratitude.

At the Grand Finale of this year’s Ibadan Cultural Festival, held at Obafemi Awolowo Stadium, Ibadan, I was overwhelmed by the presence and support of family, friends, and associates who came out in large numbers to celebrate this recognition with me.I would like to sincerely appreciate the immense support from:

The President of the Association of Ibadan Baales, Baale Bamitale Durojaye Folorunsho Ige; Baale Fatai Adesina Ojetola, Head of the Olayiwola-Ojetola Dynasty who represented the family Mogaji Rasheed Adeniyi Adeleke Abayaa; Alhaji Adegbite and his family; The Association of Professional Retired Nurses and Midwives of Nigeria (APRNMN); Members of the Ibadan Grammar School Old Students Association (IGSOSA); Alhaja Chief Mrs Rafata Adijolola Amunigun-Opowu, founder and former President, Oluyole Diamond Sister’s Club UK; Alhaja Chief Mrs Adijat Adeoye and her husband Alhaji Chief Adeoye; Omo’Ba Oluwatoosin Emmanuel Olakulehin; Honourable Wale Murphy; Alhaji Mayor Fatai AkinlabiChief Mrs Akerele;

Alhaji Olayiwola Taofeek, APC Party Chairman, Ibadan North LGA; All members of Team Akinremi; Aremo John Folorunsho Adeleke; Alhaji Lekan Hassan and Mrs Nike Hassan; Baale of Ojeniranland Chiefs; Alhaji and Alhaja GD Bello; Lady Linda Ajani and friends; Bashirat Aare and Kayode— to mention just a few.

My heartfelt appreciation also goes to Her Excellency, Chief Mrs Mutiat Ladoja and the newest Bada Olubadan of Ibadanland, Oloye Abiola Iyiola, for their generous financial support.

To the entire Olayiwola-Ojetola Dynasty, both at home and in the diaspora, thank you for your steadfast solidarity.

May the Central Council of Ibadan Indigenes (CCII) continue to grow in strength and unity, for the continued progress and prosperity of Ibadanland.

E se pupo. Mo dupe O. Olorun A ba mi dupe fun yin O. Aamin

Balogun Ambassador Gaphar Babatunde Ojetola GAIC

Families, Friends, associates, others felicitates Balogun Gaphar Ojetola as CCII set to honour him on Saturday

Congratulations, Balogun Gaphar Babatunde Ojetola (GAIC)!

With great pride and admiration, we extend our heartfelt congratulations to you on your well-deserved recognition as the Grand Ambassador of Ibadan Culture (GAIC) by the Central Council of Ibadan Indigenes (CCII).

This honour, to be bestowed upon you on Saturday, 17th May 2025, at the Grand Finale of the 2025 Ibadan Cultural Festival, is a resounding testament to your exceptional leadership, unwavering dedication, and unparalleled achievements as Chairman of both the 2022 and 2024 Ibadan Cultural Festival Planning Committees.

Your visionary stewardship during these pivotal years not only elevated the cultural prestige of Ibadan but also united our people in pride and purpose. Twice, you have led with excellence. Twice, you have delivered with honour. Now, history honours you in return.

May your new role as GAIC inspire even greater service to our heritage, and may the legacy you continue to build shine brightly for generations to come.Congratulations once again, Grand Ambassador! Ibadan is proud of you!

Committee of Friends and Members of the 2022 and 2024 Ibadan Cultural Festival Planning Committe.

CCII releases Line-Up of Activities for 2025 Ibadan Cultural Festival

The Central Council of Ibadan Indigenes has released the line-up activities for the 2025 Ibadan Cultural Festival.

The 10-day event will showcase the richness of Ibadan’s heritage through a line-up of activities spanning sports, traditional games, music, religion, education, and youth empowerment.

According to the Central Planning Committee Chairman, headed by Alhaji Abiola Ali , the festival will begin on Thursday, May 8, with the finals of Ayo Olopon and Table Tennis at the Olubadan Palace from 11:00 am to 12 noon, followed by a homage to the Olubadan of Ibadanland from 1:00 pm to 2:00 pm.

On Friday, May 9, the city will host a medical outreach and distribution of palliatives from 9:00 am to 5:00 pm, while a Jummat Service will hold by 1:30 pm. The congregation will take off from Ibadan House by 1:00 pm.

Saturday, May 10 has been declared Amala Day, with celebrations taking place at Ibadan House from 10:00 am. Attendees will enjoy the city’s most famous dish alongside cultural exhibitions.

Sunday, May 11 will feature a Christian thanksgiving service at the Cathedral of St. Peter, Aremo, starting at 10:00 am. Departure from Ibadan House is scheduled for 9:00 am.

On Monday, May 12, the spotlight will be on the Education Program Final and Talent Hunt, taking place at Ibadan House from 10:00 am to 4:00 pm.

Tuesday, May 13 is Youth Day, marked by a youth-focused event at Ibadan House from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm. A stage play titled “Osuntoki” will follow at the Wole Soyinka Theatre Hall, University of Ibadan, from 3:00 pm to 6:00 pm.

The festival’s sports final will take place on Wednesday, May 14 at Ilaji Resorts and Suites football field in Akanran, starting at 10:00 am. Take-off time from Ibadan House is 9:00 am.

On Thursday, May 15, two major events are lined up: the Oreke/Brain Beauty Pageant at Aweni Hall, Oke Ado, from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm, and a Business Dinner at the Civic Centre, Idi Ape, from 5:00 pm.

The penultimate day, Friday, May 16, will feature the prestigious Ibadan Conference at Ibadan House, beginning at 10:00 am.

The festival will culminate in a grand finale at the Obafemi Awolowo Stadium, Oke Ado, on Saturday, May 17, starting at 10:00 am.

The 2025 Ibadan Cultural Festival promises to be a powerful celebration of tradition, community, and modern aspirations.

Birthday Tribute to a Distinguished Leader, His Excellency the Deputy Governor, Barrister Chief Abdraheem Adebayo Lawal MOFI ~ Balogun Gaphar Ojetola

On this special day, we join the good people of Oyo State and well-wishers across the nation in celebrating a quintessential statesman, a detribalized patriot, and a pillar of support to His Excellency, the Executive Governor of Oyo State — Barrister Chief AbdRaheem Adebayo Lawal, MOFI , the Deputy Governor of Oyo State.

Your unwavering commitment to peace, excellence in governance, and unrelenting service to humanity have left indelible marks in the hearts of many.

Your recognition by the Central Council of Ibadan Indigenes (CCII), under the Chairmanship of Balogun Gaphar Babatunde Ojetola, as the Most Outstanding Friend of Ibadanland stands as a testament to your profound contributions to Ibadanland and the wider Oyo State.

As you mark another glorious year today, Balogun Gaphar Babatunde Ojetola joins your numerous admirers in wishing you robust health, long life, abundant grace, and continued strength to serve the people with dignity and distinction.

May your days be filled with greater accomplishments, and may your legacy continue to inspire generations to come.

Happy Birthday, Your Excellency!

We’ve lost trailblazers’ — CCII mourns Olunloyo, Adeojo

The Central Council of Ibadan Indigenes (CCII) has described the passing of former Oyo State Governor, Dr. Omololu Olunloyo, as a great loss, noting that he was a trailblazer whose legacy will never be forgotten.

The revered elder statesman, known for his intellectual brilliance and passionate advocacy for Ibadan development, passed away at the age of 89. His death has cast a shadow of mourning over the ancient city and beyond.CCII President-General, Chief Ajeniyi Ajewole, in a statement made available to newsmen by the council’s Publicity Secretary, Mr Kola Olomide, on Sunday, lamented the timing of Olunloyo’s passing, which closely followed the death of another prominent Ibadan son, Alhaji Yekini Adeojo.

Ajewole said the loss of two towering figures in quick succession had left Ibadan in deep grief.“What a loss! Baba’s elderly wife was at Bodija Central Mosque yesterday where we were celebrating the 90th Birthday of Alhaja Giwa and the Imam of the Mosque and Professor K. K. Olosho asked after the health of this frontline Ibadan leader,” he said.According to Ajewole, the passing of both Olunloyo and Adeojo within a space of three days was a painful blow to the city’s collective spirit.He, however, encouraged residents to take pride in the legacies left behind by the two distinguished leaders.“Coming just within three days of the demise of another quintessential Ibadan leader, Alhaji Yekini Adeojo, made our grief more painful. But God knows the best,” he said.Olunloyo, who briefly governed Oyo State in 1983, was not only a political leader but also a respected mathematician, academic, and policy advocate. His influence went beyond politics into education and community development, where he remained a voice of wisdom and vision.CCII praised his enduring contributions, stating that his works and ideas would continue to guide generations.“Ibadan remains undeterred. Both of them have left footprints on the sands of time, unforgettable legacies that we are proud of. May God grant both eternal rest and grant the families and our beloved city the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss,” Ajewole stressed.The council called on indigenes to see this moment as a call to action, to honour their memories through unity, progress, and cultural pride.“We must always be conscious of our heritage and braze up to continue our giant steps to make Ibadan greater. Adieu! our trailblazers,” the CCII President-General concluded.

CCII Elections: Ibadan Vanguard Sisters congratulates Ajewole, others

Dear President General and Exco Team

CONGRATULATORY MESSAGE.

The President, Ibadan Vanguard Sisters, Mrs Bade-Suarau Modasola Toyin and all members extend our heartfelt congratulations to you and your team on your re-election for a second term. As an affiliate club of our apex social cultural organization, we are honored to express our gratitude for your tireless efforts and dedication to our Ibadanland.Your leadership and vision have been instrumental in driving our organization’s growth and success.

We appreciate the time and energy you’ve invested in promoting our shared values and goals. Your commitment to excellence has not gone unnoticed, and we are grateful for your various services , especially the miracle of putting a befitting palace in place and not just an ordinary palace but an edifice that have beaten all other existing palaces in Nigeria hands down. Another surprise is the completion of the Koladaisi empowerment center within a twinkle of an eye, the pursuance of cration of Ibadan state shall come to reality during this your second term.Oloye Sulaiman Ajeniyi Ajewole , you and your team are noted for integrity and accountability.

These virtues are indeed highly commendable. We look forward to continuing our collaboration and supporting your initiatives in the coming term. Your team’s passion and expertise will undoubtedly propel our organization to new heights.Thank you for your selfless service and leadership. We are proud to be part of these success stories and excited to see the impact of your work.At this juncture, we pray that you embrace all inclusive administration and forget issues related to election.

Warm regards.

Signed by:

Secretary, Mrs Emiola A. Ibironke

for Ibadan Vanguard Sisters.

CCII Elections: Ajewole, Adetokunbo, Olomide, others to serve for another two years

Chief Sulaimon Ajeniyi Ajewole and Mr Kola Olomide have been re-elected as the President-General and Publicity Secretary of Ibadan socio-cultural organisation, Central Council of Ibadan Indigenes (CCII).

In the election, held on Friday at Ibadan House, Oke Aremo, Ajewole polled a total of 86 votes to win a second term, defeating Samson Taiwo, who garnered 24 votes.For the Publicity Secretary position, Olomide secured 76 votes, to defeat Paul Akano, who polled 35 votes.

Other elected officials include Muinat Olowookere, who emerged as Chief Whip with 81 votes against Adebola Awotoye’s 31 votes.

Folasade Olayiwola won the Social Secretary position with 81 votes, defeating Temitope Awotunde, who scored 29 votes. Akinsola Ige emerged as Legal Adviser with 81 votes, while Akinsumbo Akande polled 30 votes.Sulemon Iyanda Raufu became the 2nd Assistant Secretary-General with 85 votes, overcoming Tunde Oladimeji (23 votes) and Olukunmi Ojedele (3 votes). Ismail Kunle Shodeinde polled 87 votes to emerge as 1st Assistant Secretary-General, defeating Ismail Kayode Salawu, who scored 24 votes.

Oyewale Oyerinde was elected unopposed for the position of Internal Auditor.Oyasogo Olumuyiwa won the Financial Secretary seat with 89 votes against Bamidele Olabiyi’s 23 votes. Caleb Akande emerged as Treasurer with 84 votes, defeating Gbadamosi Bamidele, who scored 28 votes.

Adetokunbo Ayobami Subair was elected as Secretary-General with 109 votes, while Amoo Sunday became the 2nd Vice President-General with 69 votes, defeating Bashir Omotosho, who secured 40 votes. Oyebamiji Soladoye emerged as 1st Vice President-General with 109 votes.

Chairman of the electoral committee, Dr. Mojeed Lawal, described the election as free and fair.Speaking after he was re-elected, Ajewole expressed gratitude to the people of Ibadan for entrusting him with another term to serve.

The election was conducted after an Oyo State High Court vacated an order stopping the election.

Chief (Mrs) Temitope Awotunde: A Visionary Leader ready to serve as Social Secretary of The Central Council of Ibadan Indigenes

Chief Mrs Temitope Awotunde

The Central Council of Ibadan Indigenes (CCII) stands as a unifying force for the sons and daughters of Ibadanland, ensuring that our heritage, unity, and progress remain unwavering. At this critical juncture, Chief (Mrs.) Temitope Awotunde presents herself as a competent, passionate, and people-driven candidate for the position of Social Secretary, pledging to redefine community engagement and promote the collective welfare of Ibadan indigenes.

A Proven Leader with a Track Record of Service:

Chief (Mrs.) Temitope Awotunde is a respected community leader, health professional, and philanthropist with an impressive background in public service and social mobilization. Her leadership experience spans across various domains, demonstrating a rare blend of competence, empathy, and innovation in community development.

Chief Mrs Temitope Awotunde

Her previous roles include:
LACA Manager in the Local Government– spearheading public health initiatives at the grassroots level.
Head of the Community Health Department– ensuring access to essential healthcare services.
Chairman, Disciplinary Committee & Ceremonial Committee, Oyo State College of Health Science and Technology – fostering order, discipline, and excellence.
Chairperson, Childhood Cancer Awareness Committee, Lions Club International (Ibadan Axis) – advocating for children’s health under the Lions Club.
Philanthropist – committed to humanitarian services and grassroots empowerment.

A Social Secretary on a Mission:

If elected, Chief (Mrs.) Temitope Awotunde envisions an Ibadan where every indigene—both at home and in the diaspora—feels a sense of belonging, enjoys social welfare programs, and participates actively in the cultural and developmental affairs of Ibadanland.

Her leadership philosophy is anchored on:

Integrity and Accountability – A transparent, people-centered approach to service.
Approachability and Friendliness – Ensuring that every indigene has a voice.
Hard Work and Dedication – Commitment to fostering growth and inclusion.
Prudence and Equity – Fairness in decision-making for the collective benefit of all.
Creativity and Innovation – Implementing fresh ideas to drive social cohesion.

Chief Mrs Awotunde the Asiwaju Iyalode of Awotan land, Otun Iyalode of Idi-oro Elewa, Adetokun, Ologuneru, Otun Asiwaju oloja of Ibadanland and Iyalode Asa has pledged the following if she emerged as the Social Secretary.

  1. Health & Well-being:
  • Monthly free medical check-ups covering blood pressure monitoring, sugar level tests, vision screening, and general health awareness campaigns.
  • Organizing fitness and wellness programs for a healthier Ibadan community.
  1. Community Welfare & Economic Empowerment:
  • Revamping the CCII Food Canteen/Tuck Shop to provide affordable meals.
  • Partnering with Distributorship of Satchet/Bottle Water to ensure a steady supply of clean drinking water while supporting local enterprises.
  • Investment in Affordable Food Items – making staple foods more accessible at reduced prices.
  1. Cultural Preservation & Social Engagement:
  • Supporting cultural festivals and social events to promote Ibadan’s rich heritage.
  • Facilitating sporting activities to foster unity and encourage a healthy lifestyle.
  1. Youth & Women Empowerment:
  • Support and promote skill acquisition and mentorship programs for young people and women inline with the general objectives of CCII
  • Partnering with organizations to support entrepreneurship and education.

Chief (Mrs.) Temitope Awotunde has consistently proven her commitment to service, leadership excellence, and community development. As Social Secretary, she will work tirelessly to ensure that Ibadan indigenes benefit from progressive, inclusive, and sustainable social programs.

Her track record speaks for itself—now is the time to entrust her with the responsibility of strengthening our unity and preserving the Ibadan legacy.

VOTE FOR CHIEF (MRS.) TEMITOPE AWOTUNDE!
Let’s build a stronger Ibadan together!

Birthday Tribute: Garlands for Tunji Oladejo @60 ~Tayo Adekunle

By ‘Tayo Adekunle

Alhaji Muhammed Olatunji Oladejo of the University of Ibadan is a man of many parts.

He is a journalist, a university bureaucrat/administrator, a public affairs commentator, a Yoruba sociocultural exponent and an Ibadan irredentist par excellence. His social capital within and outside the University is immense.

He is a friend of the young and the old alike. He is also very accessible and always ready to help. A personal example will suffice in this regard.

Six years ago, I contacted him about an issue I wanted to resolve at the University of Ibadan. Due to the urgency of the matter, he directed me to come over immediately, and for about two or three consecutive days he personally led me to various offices to find a solution.

Although we were unable to make headway due to extenuating circumstances, he permanently ingrained his name in my heart with the energetic efforts he made during that period.

It was during that same time that I met other young persons thronging his office daily for a similar request or the other.

Without a doubt, Albert Pike surely had Mr Oladejo in mind when he stated: “What we do for ourselves alone dies with us, but what we do for others and the world remains and is immortal”.

Happy birthday, Alhaji Tunji Oladejo⁩ and many happy returns.

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